Confession: I used to absolutely HATE receiving oral sex. I was one of those girls that thought, “It’s just not for me", and I truly didn't get what all the hype was about.
Anytime I found myself in a position where my lover was desiring to devour my pussy, I pretty much shut him down faster than you could say "jack rabbit" because I felt so uncomfortable.
What I didn't know then (that I do know now), is that there was a much bigger issue at play here. My "dislike" for oral sex was just a mask to cover up some deeper unworthiness wounds and to cover up my complete and utter disconnect from my Feminine Energy.
It was only AFTER I started opening up to and healing my feminine energy that I realized that the issue was never that I didn’t enjoy oral sex; the issue was that I was so incredibly uncomfortable with RECEIVING due to being disconnected from my Feminine, that I couldn’t even allow myself to surrender into the pleasure that was available to me.
And while not being able to comfortably receive and enjoy oral sex definitely screams "disconnect from the feminine", this was just the tip of the iceberg. and it opened up an even bigger can of worms; Was I even able to comfortably “receive” in my day-to-day life?
The resounding answer was a big, fat NO.
I was GREAT at giving, but horrible at receiving.
I was happy to give a compliment, but receive a compliment? That was 10x harder. I was more than happy to help a friend, but the thought of asking for and receiving help? I would have rather cut off my toe.
As women, when we struggle to receive, it is because we are living in disconnect from our feminine energy.
Living in disconnect from our Feminine looks like:
+ Not feeling worthy
+ Not feeling deserving
+ Over-giving of ourselves
+ Questioning our value
+ Constantly seeking validation
+ Feeling guilty for choosing pleasure or putting ourselves first
+ Feeling like we have to prove ourselves
Any of these ring a bell? If so, don’t worry sis, you aren’t alone. I’ve been there and so have countless other women.
The truth is that we live in a masculine-driven world that has forced us into disconnect. We live in a world that has made us believe that in order to be "valuable women", we need to be constantly giving of ourselves. We didn't grow up in a world that encouraged us to live in our Feminine energy or that taught us how to receive.
But it is in the reconnection to our Feminine Energy that we can truly allow ourselves to receive all of the abundance and pleasure that is available to us with arms and hearts wide open. It is in our reconnection to our Feminine that we become deeply rooted in our inherent worthiness.
This is why it's time for us to re-learn how to reconnect with our Feminine energy so that we can live the life that we came here to experience.
Pleasure, joy, abundance, love, ease, delight, orgasmic ecstasy... This is our Divine Inheritance. And it's ours for the taking if we simply open ourselves up to receiving it.
XOXO,Jess
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